meet a 44 yr old male on a very popular online dating site.  who states he lives in Illinois.  However, at this time he is in europe doing paperwork for his company that he owns that is contracted out to Chevron (the oil co.) and, he is heading back to an oil rig in the North Sea in Scotland, where all his workers are.  He states he's widowed, and his 16yr old daughter lives in England with his mother.  That he's been a resident of Illinois for past 3yrs, since moving here from Pasadena, CA a year after his wife was killed in an auto accident.  Funny thing is that i meet another man on this same site who also stated he was a widower from Illinois, that moved her from Germany after his wife was killed in an auto accident.  However, he was contracted onto a company in malaysia.  The Scotland guy gave me this 309-247-5886 number.  So, I called him blocked and he has a nigerian or south american accent.  But, by no means is it a Europeon accent.  The Malaysia guy gave me number of 331-330-2411 number, and when i reverse number looked them up on whitepages.com they both show as being from San Jose, Illinois....coincedence I think not