@Queen, and JB:
Most of these predators have numerous web sites and profiles. Try to remember, this is how they make a living, just like most people punch a clock! Sadly they also have dozens of profiles and names. The majority of them are overseas, but there are some smooth operators here in the US too. That's why I'm here! To inform the world of their existence!
My best words of advice for now, and the future, is to never get involved in ANY long distance relationship, unless you actually know the person, face-to-face. And I mean NEVER!!!
Second, don't go into ANY relationship with the eyes of a giddy 16-year-old! Never! Always keep your wits about you and follow your instincts. We all have that "6th sense" that tells us when something is wrong. Learn to listen to it. These con artists know how to work that instinct, but it still warns you. Follow it!
I have a rule I tell people, "assume everyone on the internet is a thief." Go into anything you say and do with that. It will never fail you when a true thief comes along!
Next never trust anyone on a dating site, of any kind. Assume the worst up front, and when you actually meet someone real, you will be better off for it. Sadly dating sites are mostly comprised of liars and crooks. There are a few good people out there, but its back to the old "needle in the hay stack." You wont meet that perfect person right away, if ever.
Lastly, under no conditions EVER should you give out ANY personal information, unless you absolutely know how you are dealing with. Never tell anyone about where you live, your family, your job, how much stuff you got, who much you make, etc. Banks and utility company's already know your information They won't ask you. Only crooks will!
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