This person is a scammer who finds women on dating websites, sets them up emotionally and then comes in for the kill...asks you for a loan. Beware women!
Yes, beware of this guy. My 85 year-old grandmother was scammed by this guy after meeting him on Jdate. He wooed her, they talked on the phone a lot. He even sent her flowers, chocolate and a teddy bear. We became suspicious and I dropped the photos he sent her into Google images. It came up as an actor from Australia (obviously not him). I'm sure the next step would have been asking her for money. She cut contact with him after that.