You don't owe these people anything & you don't have to do a thing for them. They can freely search obituaries or public death records. That's their problem. Please done waste 1 more minute talking to these low life wannabe bookies. Simply ask for a mailing address & type out a generic cease & desist letter telling them not to contact you again. If you feel threatened by them, go to your local police, file a report & then go to your local court house & file for restraining order.