I got stuck with huge credit debts from my ex and 33 yrs of marriage after i divorced him. he is suing me to force me to pay 70,000+ worth of debt immediately because they are now calling him (we live in TX) community prop state. I have told all creditors I couldnt pay anything until i sell our house and i would divide up profits and make payment arrangements with all after i buy a small, cheap place to live. I sent 2 letters of explanation to all creditors - once when i initiated divorce in jan '14 and again this month. I told them all to quit calling my work. None have. This Tracey just called from Gardner, KS 913-215-9508 kept trying to argue with me. I said you can not call me at work. Give me your name,number and the company I owe she is calling about and I will call you after 5. she refused and kept trying to say she was from collections agency. I make just over $30,000 a year and my own bare min. living exp take up most of the $2400 take home pay. How the hell am I supposed to pay $70,000 in debt immediately? My ex is threatening me thru lawsuit to throw me in jail for 18 months and a 500 fine for every creditor I am not paying off immediately.