He is still out there looking for a woman. ME, I have decided to take my life... I cant live like this any more now. Big depths to the bank and so on. Thats not even the worst of it. I lost the lust to live. I cant feel anything, Its all empty inside . I have been like that for over 6 month now, so dont think its gonna change. So I made my decition. On the 18th of august, as he claims is his birthday, I gonna do it . I know HE dont give a damn. And yes, I know ALL my family gonna be unhappy, specially my kids. But still, I cant live with this emptiness inside me. Its gonna be better, people say, ok, when . no, I have given up. SO thanks BENSON , for ruin my life... I hope u can look u self in the mirror and smile, cos I cant.... sorry
This is getting better and better. This means that he had contact with you "Alone?" at the same time had contact with me. I broke it when he wanted money. He called me screaming that I am ruining his life if I don't give him the money.
Has he ever opened his webcam for any of you ladies? Qoute "-It's a warzone and you can't get things like that down here" end qoute. But it was no problemo sending his "funds" that he requested, through Western Union. And to pick it up in Nigeria.
I wonder how many we are really?
/I'm glad I found this and other pages about him. I hope he will get caught.
Yes, this is really getting better and better as you say.
I've been thinking a lot about this but I don't know how to move forward. I really want something to happen but I don't know how... I want him to feel just as bad as he has made many of us to feel. And that means BAD!
I have it like my both arms have been ripped off here. Even have to call in sick to work.. No webacam, ever.. have he said he gonna visit u ?, he was suppose to come here at Xmas on his way to US. I have never had problem calling him, and he called every day to. we were chatting for 5 hrs sometimes..
Yes he called me as well every day, sending love poems in my mail and lots of "I love You" textmessages. Before I said bye to him, he started by sending textmessages of how much he loved me and how "yearned" for me, followed 5 min later, with "have you sent the funds I requested?".
He also said that he was doing everything he did in Africa, for me. And that he should come visit for two weeks and plan our wedding. And then I was gonna go back with him to the states and live on his ranch, with his ranch manager and cook. I was the queen of the Frimans Kingdom.
One of the pics he sent, the one with all the marble. He claims that is his home, I never bought any of it. Why would a rich man "request funds" from women in the first place?
He invited me to Nigeria, so that he could take care of me and show me some "real" realaxtion.
He did one day say a little bit too much, and asked how my son was, which one of you have a son? I guess he had trouble separating all of us.
The worst part was his screaming when I didn't want to send any money, he got very agressive and the whole situations turned creepy many times.
It's a good thing that I have the logs of our chats intact, I felt something was not right and got help fixing that. When I read this chat logs today, all I can see is a perverted and agressive man.