Your post is amazingly difficult to read, because of the way you use capitalization. However, I really tried ... and have this advice for you:
Read this:
"It is illegal for companies doing business by phone in the U.S. to promise you a loan or credit card and ask you to pay for it before they deliver."
http://www.consumer.ftc.gov/articles/0078-advance-fee-loans
If you or a friend need a loan, you really should read this:
http://www.consumer.ftc.gov/articles/0153-choosing-credit-counselor
In fact, the more you need the money, the more urgent it is to read that information!
Protect yourself!
Recognize that NO legitimate company is going to offer you a loan, without their doing some background / credit checks on you, and they WILL generally need a snailmailed, signed contract.
If you or a friend fell for the scam, please try to educate your other friends. The only way to stop these scams is to cut off their source of money!
And, to answer your question ... if you sent your money by Green Dot or other untraceable means, it is gone.
Called to say I was approved for a loan of 1-10,000. I told him I did not apply for one and to remove me from the list or I would report them. He told me to F**k off B***h repeatedly. Wow! That was interesting! Beware, this is a scam!