A married fellow might have a hard time explaining his time on POF, the sort of thing that might come out in an investigation. Heck, I know some single men and woman who would be mortified if they were found on POF.
I'm not even married, never even been with a girl. But still, could the police not say like "Thanks for the tip, but your still in trouble for sexting a minor." That's the only thing I'm worried about, is if the cops can turn around and screw me after me trying to get the help. If I wasn't worried about that, I wouldn't hesitate to go to the cops with this info. I am being 100% honest.
Like even if the minor doesn't exist, could they turn around and destroy my life, just off the fact I was contacting a girl, regardless of wether or not she exists