What a drag! Sorry to hear what you're going through. I just got a call with your number showing in CallerID, which I didn't answer. The bad guys have likely made your phone number unusable for you and I would think you'll need to get a new #.
There's got to be a way to come up with "certified" caller ID #s that can't be spoofed. Until then, I'm using blacklists via Ooma to filter my calls, but many still slip through to ring my phone like this one did. I may switch to whitelisting via Google Voice, so only the numbers I approve will make it through to ring.
JJ- I'm the owner of 201-452-4404. Please read my message below regarding the scam and how it has exploited my phone number to carry through with a terrible phone spoofing scam. You put my name on your post, which puts me in a tough position. I'm getting calls and threats all day and night, and my name being exposed is not something I'm comfortable with. Could you redact my name from your post?